I will double dip, if that is OK... and, I am an old grandpa ally, so take a grain of salt now!

Most of the trans people I know are older, like me! It is my impression from being with them that being older, and stealth especially, can be a very lonely deal. I am happy the younger kids have it better... I still sense a wall between LGB and T, which seems to be a construct of the LGB. Please correct me if I am off base!